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FAQs

Frequently Asked Questions

If I go to a meeting, will I have to talk?
No one is required to talk at any meeting. We understand how difficult that can be when your grief is so fresh or you are going through a particularly difficult time. We do ask that you listen, however.

My child was an adult and didn’t live at home. Can I still go to a meeting?
Chapter meetings are open to all families who have experienced the death of a child, at any age, from any cause. Regardless of age, we in TCF believe our children will always be thought of as just that…..our children.

Is there a charge to attend?
There is never a charge to attend a TCF meeting. Our chapter relies on voluntary donations from members, friends, and the community at large.

What happens at a meeting?
At some meetings we simply introduce ourselves and share our thoughts and feelings. At other times, we may have a short program before the sharing time. The programs may include a guest speaker, viewing a video tape, or listening to an audio tape.

Can I bring a friend with me?
Of course, you can bring a friend, but we ask that they, as well as all members, respect each others’ privacy. It is important for us to be able to share freely within our group and be sure confidences will be respected.

My husband/wife says he/she won’t come with me. Can I come alone?
Yes. We all grieve differently and your spouse may not be ready to take part just yet…or ever. Many people attend without their spouse.

Is anyone welcome no matter how their child died?
Yes. All families who have experienced the death of a child at any age, from any cause, are welcome.

Religion doesn’t matter to me anymore. Can people at a meeting accept that?
Yes, you will find TCF members are very tolerant of any views. After the death of a child, many priorities, as well as values, change.

I notice the meeting is in a church. Do I have to belong to a church to attend?
TCF has no religious affiliation at all. Chapter meetings are held in a wide variety of locations depending upon what is available in our communities. In the case of the Providence Chapter, meetings are held in a church but there is no affiliation with the church.

I have baby-sitting problems. Would it be all right to bring my 5 year-old with me?
While we understand the difficulties of finding child care, we must ask that any children attending with you be old enough to understand the meeting discussions and not be upset by them. Some chapters have sibling groups for children 12 or older; check with your local chapter about this.

Do I need a reservation before I come to a meeting?
No reservations are needed. Just come whenever you feel up to it.

My child died many years ago, and I postponed my grief work. Now it’s catching up with me. Is it too late to come now?
We all grieve differently. Many parents don’t feel the need of a support group until years after the death of a child. It’s all right to come whenever you are ready, whether it’s soon after your child’s death, months later, or years later.

The Compassionate Friends Providence Chapter                                                                        Visit us on Facebook
10 Dail Drive, North Providence, RI 02911
Lucille Valliere, Chapter Leader
401-231-9229, lcvalliere49@gmail.com  

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